Monday, July 23, 2012

My 30th Bday or as Swati says "THREE-OH" :)

A milestone birthday celebrated as a milestone :). A day made really special by a very special person, my dear loving wife.

Like every year, things started cooking as soon as beginning of July. Special treatment and special food of course :).

From what I could gather, I came to know that probably messages are being collected from friends and family. Also, in due course of time, I realized that probably a surprise party was cooking, out of home, for a change. I, for a change, did not pry around beyond that, lest it would spoil my own bag of surprises :).

On 20th midnight, things started coming out. The usual cake and the balloons and then a VERY VERY SPECIAL gift. A scrapbook with messages, warm wishes and bittersweet memories from the yesteryears. My life, from when I remember, flashed in front of my eyes. There are a few very emotional messages, which shook me and I shed a tear or two, after a really long time.


It was overwhelming and heartwarming to read all those long, short, praising, encouraging, fun-filled and sentimental messages, from all people close to my heart, sometimes giving out minute details of how I was in my childhood and some telling me what I have been as a more mature human being. Few other messages were to let me know, what is coming and how I should be taking it :). Wholly, it is a treasure chest and will be a very prized and precious possession for a long time to come.

I couldn't thank swati beyond words and a few kisses to express how I was feeling and how much her effort and the enthusiasm meant to me. She's gone a step ahead each time surpassing the limits I set for her. I love you baby, for being what you are!

We slept peacefully, or rather I slept peacefully, coz Swati , as she later confessed, did not get sleep thinking about the next day.

I got up and got ready and left for my usual Saturday Golf lesson. Surprisingly, till 11 in the morning, not many called. I attributed it to the fact that the wishes already reached and it was my turn to thank back :). But turned out, swati had instructed everybody to call only after that :P. Anyway, I finished my golf lesson and got myself mentally prepared for a burst of surprise as I reached home. Before that I spoke to both set of parents and seeked their blessings on this very special day.

I came home and I saw an unseen sandal, coat and purse of a girl. Although, I was expecting many people rather than only one, my mind raced to think about who it would be. Apart from this, the hall was decorated, there was a makeshift party floor on the carpet, balloons on the ceiling and all walls were flanked with posters on 30th Birthday ! For the first time, it dawned on me that the party was gonna be at home :).

I came in slowly and saw what I had never expected. seeing Sheila standing there, was a big blow for me :). It was a really great surpise and I couldn't thank her enough for being there (I mean she was due to come over sometime, but she timed it too well :)).

Well, swati now got company and the girls kept making stuff up and confusing me till the evening, about whats was about to happen. In between, We had lunch and even dozed off for sometime. When I got up, there was another surprise waiting for me.

There were 30 cup-cakes, all decorated by Swati and arranged methodically on a beautiful stand. It elated me, although I am not very fond of cakes, but this was special, really SPECIAL !


After a round of coffee, I was told to get changed, so we could plan to go out somewhere. By this time, I had got Swati into confessing a few things about what the plan was, since I had to arrange logistics for the guests parking etc :). Even the girls got ready and started waiting. This was the time when my friends from US(Sam/Vijeta, Sanjay/Arpita, Manish/Adyasha, Humera) and India(Manas, Shyamu, Masi, Musa, Aan, Mamiji, Gattu/Arpita, Ruchi/Ritesh, Babu/Avatar) called.

Slowly, the air was getting clearer. Waquar and family and Vineet and family arrived. Waquar was wearing colorful hair, but it didnt suggest anything. Then, Sandeep and Arunima arrived and still I didnt get anything. And then came the biggest surprise of the day ! It was going to be a Hippy Theme party ! There was a accessory bag for me :) After my initial resistance, I was dressed up.


Joydeep and Sudipta and then Daya and family, all arrived. I had kind of guessed they would come. Then came Dantesh, Joseph and Prachi and Vivek, which was again a surprise for me, since I didnt expect them. Hemant and Aarti also came in. All people were dressed, not as much as me, but yes :).

We started off and it was too much fun. We had cakes, shots(tequilla/coke), and then music, dance, dressing up, photographs.

There was an introduction round for all people to get to know each other and how they knew me ! Then we played TWISTER, another interesting Party game. It was nice fun-filled party. Dinner was well arranged and food was awesome. Thanks Daya for getting it over along with him.


People had dinner and slowly started leaving, after showering me with gifts. It was after a long time I got soo many gifts.

8 of us were left and we opened Champagne to celebrate the last hour. Then all left and even me and Swati got to bed. Swati opened all secrets of her planning and execution in these last few weeks. We saw the gifts and said good night.

The next morning, Sheila was a bit hung over and we had breakfast and showed her around, had wholesome lunch with Biriyani from the previous day and dropped her to Station in the afternoon. We then returned things to Vineet and Liesha. Swati later told me Liesha played an important role in my B'day preperations.

We lazed around most of it and spoke to parents and gattu, and said goodbye to a gala weekend :). I love you my lady, for being there and loving me so much. I really want to thank you for making my day so special and doing it beyond the call of duty of the wife and the love of a sweetheart :). I will cherish this milestone b'day for a long time, unless of course, you break your own record to give me bigger surprises :).

Love - Harry

Friday, December 17, 2010

Happy Anniversary 2010 baby !

Happy B'day 2010 Darling !

Saturday, February 13, 2010

I LOVE YOU MORE THAN EVER !

This is for you jaan !...

This V'Day in 2010, our 9th V'Day together! or the 1st one away from each other....

As I lay here, alone ... so far away from you ...
I can feel our love, our bonding, our closeness, give me a special warmth in this heart frozen by the chill of time, situation.

This is a really emotional moment for me baby and I am really touched, as the fond memoirs of yester years zoom past my thoughts. I visualize our romance and our embrace and all the soft giggles, small trifles, dull and bright moments and ... all joy that our love has given me ... I am proud of our love, which has given a new meaning to my life !

Darling, I am so lonely today ... but I am happy that I am able blog this to let my thoughts flow through to you ... and I am hopeful I'll live up to our expectations and do the best to create a new life for ourselves.

My heart is so heavy with the pain of being away and I now realize, its not so easy as I had thought it would be, away from you, on this special day of our lives.I wish I could fly and come to you to hold you close and share our love's 9th Birthday!

You are my soul and you are the best part of my existence. I am filled with immense love at the thought of you and I believe my Life without you would be like a frozen ocean, which can neither quench the thirst of those outside it nor provide warmth to souls in it ...

I love you ! and it's not a small insignificant feeling ... Its the best feeling I have ever known. Know this Jaan, that I LOVE YOU LIKE CRAZY AND I MISS YOU REAL BAD !

Dedicating a small little romantic song, to you and to our love... Hope you like it....

Happy Valentine's Day!



I still hear your voice, when you sleep next to me.
I still feel your touch in my dreams.
Forgive me my weakness, but I don't know why
Without you it's hard to survive.

'Cause everytime we touch, I get this feeling.
And everytime we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.
'Cause everytime we touch, I feel the static.
And everytime we kiss, I reach for the sky.
Can't you hear my heart beat so...
I can't let you go.
Want you in my life.

Your arms are my castle, your heart is my sky.
They wipe away tears that I cry.
The good and the bad times, we've been through them all.
You make me rise when I fall.

'Cause everytime we touch, I get this feeling.
And everytime we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.
'Cause everytime we touch, I feel the static.
And everytime we kiss, I reach for the sky.
Can't you hear my heart beat so...
I can't let you go.
Want you in my life.

'Cause everytime we touch, I get this feeling.
And everytime we kiss I swear I could fly.
Can't you feel my heart beat fast, I want this to last.
Need you by my side.

Saturday, July 04, 2009

For my Lovely Wife !

This shows we are destined for each other jana! Missing you here in London as never before !



Sunday, January 18, 2009

For Dad :) on his 50th B'day

One More for my Best Buddy :)

My Best Buddy - Manas :)

My Dearest Mom :)

Friday, October 31, 2008

The Promises - For you Today Jana !

Our Wedding WAR !

For you Jana - A promise for Life !

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Happy Birthday Love !




She's a yellow pair of running shoes
A holy pair of jeans
She looks great in cheap sunglasses
She looks great in anything
She's I want a piece of chocolate
Take me to a movie
She's I can't find a thing to wear
Now and then she's moody

She's a Saturn with a sunroof
With her brown hair blowing
She's a soft place to land
And a good feeling knowing
She's a warm conversation
That I wouldn't miss for nothing
She's a fighter when she's mad
And she's a lover when she's loving

And she's everything I ever wanted
And everything I need
I talk about her, I go on and on and on
'Cause she's everything to me

She's a Saturday out on the town
And a church girl on Sunday
She's a cross around her neck
And a cuss word 'cause its Monday
She's a bubble bath and candles
Baby come and kiss me
She's a one glass of wine
And she's feeling kinda tipsy

She's the giver I wish I could be
And the stealer of the covers
She's a picture in my wallet
Of my unborn children's mother
She's the hand that I'm holding
When I'm on my knees and praying
She's the answer to my prayer
And she's the song that I'm playing

She's the voice I love to hear
Someday when I'm ninety
She's that wooden rocking chair
I want rocking right beside me
Everyday that passes
I only love her more
Yeah, she's the one
That I'd lay down my own life for

And she's everything I ever wanted
And everything I need
She's everything to me
Yeah she's everything to me

Everything I ever wanted
And everything I need
She's everything to me!

Thanks for Being there always !